You know, I don’t know how to be friends with more than one friend at a time. Same as having more than one boyfriend at a time; they get jealous and they expect you to tell them the truth, which will inevitably hurt them.
But some people insist on being your friend anyway and (here is where I get vague) I just can’t deal with being liked that much. Why don’t you just make it like when I was in Junior High School and nobody liked me and I was imbisible. Yes I know I said that funny but it’s because that’s how childish I feel when these particular issues come up. Honestly, it was torture being imbisible, too, but what I go through now is not fun either. I really can’t say much about the people and the issues because then I will be talking not-nice about someone and I’m not allowed to be not-nice.
Sigh.
I just want to play by myself. I want to read my book and that’s all.
Boundaries? What’s that?
Love your blog I can relate to so much of it. Love you🤗
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Thank you! Who’s “Me”?
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My Mom once said that if I gained 3 truly reliable froends in my entire life I was one of the lucky ones. She had been very socially adept and pleasant but for her the grinning acquaintances counted little…and yes she held closely to 3 dear friends…Doug
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I need to erect better boundaries, too.
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https://sites.google.com/site/stuffthatrhymes/follow-me/blog/fellowtravelers
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this was very good!
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Might try this site…
https://sites.google.com/site/conversationabove/conversation-prayer/conversation-care
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Thank you! It’s very good! And convicting (ouch!)
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